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Do Advocates of Same-Sex Unions Often Exaggerate Their Concerns?

The answer again is "yes." Some examples:
  • Health Care. A recent article reported, incorrectly, that marriage confers on partners "the right to make medical decisions on behalf of one another. Without it, activists say, same-sex partners essentially are strangers."20 The reality is otherwise. A competent individual controls decisions affecting his or her own health care; marriage does not change that. Marriage also doesn't affect an individual's ability to choose in advance who will make decisions for him or her in the event he or she becomes incapable. A durable power of attorney allows the individual to select someone to handle financial and health care decisions. For those who desire court supervision in the event of incapacity, a designation of conservator allows the individual to select one or more conservators (guardians) who would serve. A designation of health care agent allows the individual to select who will implement his or her living will in the event of a terminal illness.

20 "Debate on Gay Marriages to Resurface," Hartford Courant, 1/14/2002. The mistake was repeated in an article by the same author in the 2/11/2002 edition of the Courant entitled "Clergy is Divided on Gay Marriage Bill."


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